Thursday, March 23, 2017

Looking up while looking down

While our real world are slowly growing around us in several aspects such as economic, social, technology and more, the virtual world are developing in a rapid rate too. It is true that we are glued to our smartphones both in public and private nowadays because we cannot escape from the social media due to the desires of  updating ourselves about the most recent news or gossips. However, it is always crucial to be reminded that the Internet and social media should not the focus of our attention in a day and age where everyone put their smartphones in their pockets. Gary Turk had shared his short film to remind us to look up and get a break from the virtual social world. In this short film, along with his inspiring yet sarcasm poem, a love story about the life of a man and woman without the hindrances of social media was told. This short film went viral and had more than 12 million views on Youtube. 



Many of us are not aware that we are getting too much distractions from our gadgets in our daily life and these gadgets are slowly disconnected us from our real world and may eventually ruin our relationships with the people around us. When we look around the most busiest street in the cities, we will find people walking down the sidewalk either has their earphones on or has their eyes fix on that tiny screens that rest on their palms of hands. But, the real problem is none of us think that it is a big deal. These gadgets obsessions could actually get us killed if we are being too distracted and ignoring the real environment around us. For instance, there were people that got hit by the car while they were looking at their phones and not paying their attention to their surroundings.

Moreover, always looking at the information in the small frame may let you ignore the important massage sent to you within the people in your surroundings. Whenever you heard the notification or ring alert from your smartphones, you will automatically respond to it no matter where you are(even in bathroom)and what you are doing (even in the middle of talking with someone)to check the new messages or posts from the social media.  A new word "phubbing" is even created to describe those actions which people are too busy to look at their phones in every moment of their life . Imagine you are talking with a phubber, then you will know the feelings that being ignore as compare to one's smartphone. Here I share an interesting article about how smartphone could actually ruin your personal relationships in your daily life.
http://liveboldandbloom.com/10/relationships/how-smartphones-could-be-ruining-your-relationship

To sum up, I am not telling you to quit the social media and the Internet because I am sure no one can do that in this digital age. I am just telling all of us to try to put down our gadgets and look around the surroundings. Maybe we will some surprising moments and pretty scenery from that. If you are wondering how you can get rid of this mobile obsession, you may want to look at this article.
http://www.gadgetsnow.com/slideshows/7-ways-to-get-rid-of-smartphone-addiction/photolist/53604482.cms

Hope you are free to make good use of your time and share good moments with the people around you without the use of your gadgets.








   

13 comments:

  1. Well, I agree that we should look up more because who knows we might missed out beautiful scenery, wonderful people and heartwarming moment if we are too busy with our smartphones.
    People always say, our eyes capture the most beautiful memories. Ironically, we are too busy to like and share those videos and pictures on the Internet telling the story that we should actually experience it on our own.
    We often being touched by those videos telling about how should we spend time with our parents because they are getting old, how should we cherish the people around us, how should we get ourselves motivated and others. But in the real world, how many of us actually practice it?

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    1. Ya, it is actually easier said than done.. But once we try, we may realize relationships in real life are more meaningful than the world within the gadgets.

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  2. Indeed, we should put more attention to our surroundings instead of our smartphones. No matter how nice the virtual world would be, but still we are not part of it, we can just only scroll down and look through them, but we can actually feel and experience them. The real world is relatively more important, because it is the world makes us learn, grow and experience those sweet, happy and challenging moments.

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  3. As the gadget has become increasingly important to daily life, people cannot resist to pay their attention on phones. It might become an issue in near future such as sedentary lifestyle, trigger finger and so on. To avoid heavy usage, people should take some time off to stay away from the gadgets in order to refresh oneself. We might miss our something worthwhile when we are too busy scrolling our phones.

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    1. Yup,many social issues might be occurred because of digital obsession...

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  4. Thanks for your sharing, Amber. =)
    Yes. It is a nice information as well as an advice.
    Not everything are always there, we must treasure every single moment with real life rather than keep spending our time on our smart gadgets.

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  5. Good sharing,I strongly agree with you. Apart for this, always glued to smartphones might affect our health. You may want to look on this articlehttp://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/gadgets-and-tech/looking-down-at-your-smartphone-is-the-same-as-carrying-4-bowling-balls-on-the-back-of-your-head-9872144.html.

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    1. Had looked through it, thanks for sharing ^^

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  6. We are too often look down to our smartphone without realizing there are many beautiful things surrounding us. Sometimes we have to put down our phone and pay attention to people surrounding us.

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  7. Sometimes we are just cannot stay away from our gadgets because of many reasons. We always give reasons to ourselves why we keep looking down on our gadgets. Smartphone is a great innovation in the society. People are connected to each other, get news immediately, search information amd many more. But, are we too rely on our gadgets? We rely can't stay away from our phone? Do we ever care about people while we look down? In my opinion, we should think this kind of questions seriously.
    Thanks for your sharing!

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